A is for
Alcohol - If you can afford it, use genuine
champagne for the toasts and have a choice of red
and white wines. Remember, there may be people who
don't drink alcohol, and those who are driving, so
have an option for them.
Accommodation - provide
a list of places to stay
B is for Breakfast - A nutritious breakfast
is the best start for any bride and groom before
their wedding. It'll help calm your stomach and
nerves. Go for cereal, toast and fruit.Bridesmaids
- we have three bridesmaids - Naomi, Charlotte and
Val.
C is for
Cosmetics - Brides
should wear make-up they feel comfortable in and
shades that bring out the best in their outfit.
Don't be pushed into using too much by beauty
consultants wanting to get some commission from
selling you lots of make-up.
D is for
Dress - This is what
all the guests have been waiting to see, but don't
be tempted to go over the top, especially to impress
or please relatives.
E is for
Entertainment - Most
receptions are followed by a party. Think about your
guests before you book a band or DJ, so Great Aunt
Edna isn't forced to dance to techno.
F is for
Family - You love them
dearly, but you haven't seen some of them for years.
Take time to talk to everyone on the big day.
G is for Gifts - Make sure
you give all your guests a list of wedding presents
and double-check there's a wide price range to
choose from to save any embarrassment.
H is for Honeymoon - Not the
most important part of a wedding or a marriage, but
getting away from it all with your new spouse will
be a relief after a busy day. Book early and look
out for special honeymoon offers at travel agents.
I is for Invites - These
should be sent out at least six weeks before the
wedding day, so people have time to reply. Don't
forget to include the basic details of when and
where the ceremony is!
J is for Jewellery - Brides
should either wear their everyday items or simple
matching pieces which compliment their dress.
Remember the ring is the most important item, so
other pieces of jewellery should not dominate.
K is for Kind Advice -
Family members excel in this department. Listen to
what they have to say, but take everything with a
pinch of salt. Remember, it's your day.
L is for Laughter - Remember
to enjoy the ceremony. A little laughter goes a long
way to helping everyone relax.
M is for Money - Budget your
wedding carefully and make sure you can afford it.
Don't start married life in a financial mess.
N is for Nails - Make sure
they're at least manicured, preferably with a clear
or opaque polish, for showing off that all-important
ring - everyone will want to see it.
O is for Organisation -
Careful organisation of every aspect of a wedding is
the key to success.
P is for Photographer - Make
sure you've seen previous examples of their work
before you book them. And get a written quote.
Q is for Qualms - Most
people suffer from a few qualms before the big day.
It's perfectly normal and if there are really big
questions then maybe you should discuss them with a
friend or even a professional counsellor.
R is for Reception - This is
an enjoyable part of the day. Keep it traditional,
simple, but not too long. Don't settle for the first
place that is available and make sure you visit the
reception room and see examples of the menu before
making any commitment. Get a written statement of
what the venue intends to provide.
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S is for Speech - The main
men usually make them, but these days the bride
often has a go too. Do it if you feel comfortable
and use notes if you need to.
T is for Transport -
Everyone needs to get to the church on time, so make
sure arrangements for this are spot on. Again, get
several written quotes before choosing.
U is for Underwear - Wedding
lingerie is traditionally a firm favourite with
brides, so why not splash out - it'll make your
wedding night even more special!
V is for Vows - Most people
still follow tradition when it comes to wedding
vows, but adding something of your own can add a
personal touch to the ceremony.
W is for Wedding Rings -
These days you can choose from more than just the
traditional band of gold. If you want something more
personalised, forget the High Street windows and
find a local jeweller or goldsmith who can design
and make a ring.
X is for Kisses - Keep a
stick of lip balm handy - both bride and groom will
get plenty of kisses throughout the day!
Y is for Why? - The bride
and groom should find some time to be alone during
the day in order to remember that a wedding is about
a long term commitment and not just a big
celebration. Give yourselves a few moments of
contemplation.
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Z is for Zzzz - According to
recent reports, one third of newly-weds fall
straight to sleep on their wedding nights. Ah well,
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